Error of Man: The New Modern Family? Woman and Two Men Raise Son in ‘Polyamorous’ Relationship
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By: Heather Clark, Christiannews.com
Los Angeles, California – ABC News recently aired a segment about a woman involved in what is called a polyamorous relationship — living with multiple boyfriends or girlfriends under one roof.
The woman, identified as Jaiya, began by living with her boyfriend Jon. However, because Jaiya wanted to have children and Jon didn’t, he suggested that she bring someone else into the picture that would conceive with her.
Therefore, Jaiya brought home Ian, and the two had a little boy together. Both Ian and Jon are raising the child, and Jon quit his job to stay home with him.
“I’m looking for what helps me to be the best human that I can possibly be,” Jaiya told reporters. “I stopped searching for ‘the one.’ I can have the one, and I can also have the one, and the one and the one.”
Jaiya works as a professional sexologist, giving sexual advice to others. She admits to having sexual relations with both men, and states that while Jon now wants other children, she does not.
“There’s a part of me that wants to go back to “That was MY girlfriend,” Jon said.
However, according to the ABC report, Jon is now looking for a second girlfriend, and Ian already has another relationship on the side.
Jaiya said that the family structure has taken a lot of new forms in recent years, so she does not see a problem with living with two boyfriends.
“What is the modern family today?” she asked. “We’ve got step-moms and step-dads; we’ve got gay parents raising children… The family today is a different thing than what it was years ago.”
Ian made similar comments when asked what he would say to those who believe his polyamorous relationship is immoral.
“Thank you for sharing your opinion,” he said. “We’re not here to convert people and tell people that monogamy is wrong.”
ABC notes that there are an estimated 500,000 polyamorous relationships in the nation. One viewer, named Anne, called the comments from other viewers who spoke against polyamory “hateful.”
“I’m in a poly relationship right now and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been,” she asserted. “I don’t expect other people to ‘get it’ right away or at all, but I do expect them to mind their own business if they don’t want to approach it with an open mind.”
Another viewer named Lisa admitted she also had a similar arrangement.
“I’m in a polyamorous relationship too, and they make it seem way more complicated than it is,” she wrote. “Monogamy is great, but I had thought we had finally advanced enough that non-monogamy can become a norm.”
However, some strongly disagreed.
“Arrangements like this never end well for all involved,” wrote one commenter. “This is total chaos.”
“It is adultery in God’s eyes,” stated another. “That is not a modern family. Family by God’s laws and standards is one man, one woman. Not two men [and] one woman, or two women and one man, or two men [and] two women. The rest is called by God ‘abomination’ and will not enter the Kingdom of God.”
“Doesn’t the Scripture warn about this for that one reason?”added a third viewer. “This can lead to psychological problems either in one or both men, or all three people. Even some problems in the child or children if there are more. America is out of control, and if we’re not careful, this country will [end up] like Rome. I think I can see what was one reason why Rome fell.”Error of man by heather clark christiannews.com-Two men and a woman raise a child under same roof
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There are reasons standards were set; without anchors ships will drift so far away it'll be hard to believe they were ever at d shore. Without proper foundations, structures will eventually collapse and that's what's happening here. It's true we as humans are extremely powerful beings, but as powerful as we may be we are still finite and we should learn to realize we don't know it all.
ReplyDeleteSome may argue about the "concept" of God - but God is so much more than a concept, more than an idea; our real problem our pride in thinking we can figure Him out just because we have done so with so many other things.
WAKE UP PEOPLE! If you had a Trillion years and all d knowledge past, present and future, you can't figure him out so just be wise and believe and do what he says, it's so much simpler.
You can't keep moving d foundations and expect to have a building, who knows what your children will do. Maybe for them a family would eventually become "A Donkey and man as daddies, a dog and woman as mummies" if you think that's impossible take a good look @ where this all started from and if you care to know what the real problem is check Romans 1: 21 - 32
21 Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened. 22 Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools, 23 And changed the glory of the uncorruptible God into an image made like to corruptible man, and to birds, and fourfooted beasts, and creeping things.
24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves: 25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen. 26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: 27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; 29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: 32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.
Thanks Mr Taiwo for the expose. GOD HELP US ALL
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